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April 26, 2016
Filed Under: Grief Writings, Kaddish Musings, Reflections on Love
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A Prayer for Sylvia Brown, may her memory be a blessing

What do we call this sadness?

I am not one of the mourners.

  • I have no candle to light
  • No kaddish to recite
  • No shiva to sit

The heart tears open in memory of your aliveness

Your bright yellow touched my fragile grey blue

Holding her gently, allowing her to find her way

When I was so young, terrified

What do we call this sadness?

Thank you, crying

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  1. JudithDambowic says

    April 27, 2016 at 8:28 am

    Great point on this one about a far away person that had a pivotal impact on you. Is it holding her gently OR holding you gently?
    I love your rioting responses to living

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  2. bernice dambowic says

    April 30, 2016 at 3:54 pm

    at this point in time the clock rewinds to a place where my tears for joan become images in your poem. thank you chaya…bernice

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